Frigidity in Women... Its
Causes and Treatment.
Sexual frigidity in women is the opposite concept of
impotence in men, and women suffer from it are not a few, and it may extend for
months and may extend for years and add to this our culture as Arabs in dealing
with these sensitive issues which exposes the matter to exacerbation, so I
presented you with this article.
We must emphasize that the sexual relationship between
a man and his wife is a common matter, and it is a process in which the two
parties interact to reach the highest levels of pleasure, so you will find us
in our conversation about the causes and treatment.
What is sexual frigidity in women
It is a weakness in the desire or performance of the
wife, which may occur due to organic, psychological or hormonal reasons, which
affects sexual enjoyment between the spouses so that they prevent them from
reaching orgasm, which makes the sexual relationship a disgusting matter to a
large degree, which leads to the wife's aversion to those Relationship.
In fact, the husband differs a lot from his wife in
the sexual relationship, as the rate of hormone fluidity has a very strong, and
therefore once he thinks while he is back from work in that relationship, he is
thus ready to perform that relationship to the fullest.
As for the woman, it is relatively slow compared to
the man. She needs time, preparation, and preparation for herself to enter into
that relationship. In women compared to men.
What are the causes of frigidity in women?
Advance fears
And some women in our Arab and oriental nature have
shame and shame that prevents her from asking before marriage or from learning
even from her mother, or that some of the girls were extravagant in watching
pornographic films as they would do like what you see in them and the truth and
reality, otherwise these films are full of exaggerations.
Ignorance of the nature of women
The man’s ignorance of the nature of his wife as a
woman needs enough time to reach the excitement, on the contrary, he does not
need all this time, and dealing with the woman as always ready, which causes
the man to request sexual relations at a time when she may not be ready, which
reduces the enjoyment in that relationship, which Lead to chill.
Hormonal causes
The sexual process of a man and a woman has three
basic factors, which are the psychological factor "readiness for
relationship", the organic factor "the safety of the sexual organs of
men and women" and the hormonal factor "represented by the desire of
both the husband and wife" and the desire here is represented in the
female hormones "estrogen and progesterone", which Of course, if its
percentage decreases, sexual frigidity occurs.
Organic causes
The lack of vaginal discharge in a woman may be among
the organic causes that hinder the completion of the relationship in a proper
way, vaginal tightness in some women may be among the reasons for this, and
here the matter needs medical medical intervention to solve this problem.
Painful experiences
The exposure of a girl at a young age to some abnormal
sexual experiences - and this is observed in psychological clinics - leads to
an aversion to that sexual relationship at an early age, or her exposure to a
painful marital sexual relationship before that may lead to alienation from
that relationship after that without a clear reason.
Selfish man
Some men in a sexual relationship are very selfish to
find a man from whom he ends his sexual relationship and then quickly dislikes
his wife and leaves her while she has not achieved her lust like him, which may
prompt her due to the embarrassment of facing him to refuse that relationship
or to perform it unsatisfactorily in the coming times.
The man has certain diseases
Such diseases that impede the completion of a sexual
relationship in peace and ease, including Peyronie's disease, “penile
curvature” and specialists determine only thirty degrees of curvature, and if
the percentage exceeds that, a disability in the sexual relationship occurs
clearly, which leads to a woman’s aversion to that relationship in the coming
times.
Treatment of frigidity in women
Our approach to treating sexual frigidity in women
will be to direct mostly talk and advice to women, in addition to a little
advice for men, and a set of joint advice between spouses.
Prepare well before the relationship
A woman’s willingness to enter into a sexual
relationship needs time unlike a man, so you may ask him to tell you that he
wants to have a relationship a while before and say to him to comb my hair or
perfume for example, then sit and think a little about the relationship that
you will have, and imagine what you will do with it, this will help a lot in
Eliminate frigidity.
Ask him
There is nothing wrong with asking anything from him
in your relationship with him, and you may be somewhat shy, but here there is
no need for shame, as God Almighty said, “They are dressed up for you and you
are dressed up for them.” There is nothing wrong with asking him for a specific
performance or movement that you have seen in one of the films. This eliminates
frigidity.
Talk to him before the relationship
Do not rush to fulfill all his requests to end the
relationship in the shortest possible time. Dr. Mustafa Mahmoud said that the
sexual relationship is “five minutes” and after these five minutes and what
preceded him is the one that lasts, so talk to him about his day and his
exciting events and give him the role of the hero in the dialogue this helps a
lot.
Do not hurry
Do not try to solve this problem once or at once, but
graduation in this is very required, and keep a low and permanent level of
being away from frigidity and ask him to help you achieve the maximum degree of
sexual enjoyment.
Take care of the general atmosphere of the relationship
Interest in low light and the general atmosphere that
suggests romance, comfort and privacy, and this makes you ready to conduct that
relationship with all strength, and do not mind some candles or wearing some
colored clothes in certain colors that you may ask of your husband and you may
ask him any color he wants you to wear.
Take care of foreplay
Do not enter the relationship with the aim of ending
it, but delay as long as possible from the foreplay period and ask him what he
wants from you and as we said there is nothing wrong with anything he asks of
you as long as it is not a taboo known "marriage and sexual intercourse
during the menstrual period."
Be renewed
Do not be in the same scene every time, this is
boring, as the marital relationship is mutual and common between the two
parties, so try to change the arrangement of home furniture around your husband
or to bring him a kind of food that he loves very much, which makes him enjoy
the relationship, which reflects on your happiness and enjoyment of this
relationship.
Eat some food
Vegetables in general, especially green ones, help a
lot to achieve fitness in that sexual relationship, and also eating cold olive
oil is very beneficial, as well as natural white honey is very useful and has a
cure for all diseases, in addition to garlic and cooked onions, and avoid
eating red meat before the relationship or sea foods rich in phosphorous.
Eat some herbs
It is the herbs that improve blood circulation,
including ginger, cinnamon, and chilli, but in moderate proportions. It may be
applied to green salads, and these herbs help to clean blood vessels in general
and of course, they improve sexual blood circulation and lead to eliminating
sexual frigidity in women, and feverfew also helps a lot.
Caress his imagination
Do not be fully exposed in front of him, but make a
rationalization of this and reduce the areas of your body stripped as much as
possible and then take off those clothes from you one after the other quietly
and slowly This is interesting and look in his eyes this helps a lot, and see
how beautiful you are in his eyes.
Go to a specialist
Going to a specialist in the event of a failure to
solve the problem of frigidity through the previous several methods, and once
you go to the specialist will be able to determine the reason behind frigidity,
and here he can provide appropriate treatment at that time.
If the causes of frigidity were membership of the
wife, the doctor for gynecology and obstetrics will examine the wife's vagina
through a clinical examination, and then he will determine whether there is any
tightness or birth defects in the vagina, and he will treat it medicinally.
If the reason was hormonal, the wife would be required
to perform some analyzes of the female hormone and the prolactin, the milk hormone.
Then, if the cause was hormonal, he would give her natural or medicinal sources
to increase the rates of those hormones or to reduce them if the cause of
frigidity was an increase in those hormones.
But if the causes of sexual frigidity are purely
psychological, then we need a specialist in psycho-sexual therapy or sexual
medicine, and then the specialist will try to replace the painful experiences
of the girl with regard to sex with healthy and normal ones, and of course this
will be with the help of the husband, and he may use some psychological
reassurance and some antidepressants.
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